Friday, January 2, 2009

Lawrence of Arabia..Imagine

If you can believe it, neither Brad nor I have ever seen Lawrence of Arabia!  It's Friday night, our sabbath, also our weekend.  Saturday is just like the Christian world, Saturday.  So on Friday nights we like to watch a movie, ITunes TV or something "celebratory".  Brad decided to watch Lawrence of Arabia tonight.  I am enjoying blogging while these 3 (well, Brad) watch the movie.
Charlie has often been considered a "Mama's Boy".  I like that about him.  It's nice to have a "Boy".  He usually likes me to read to him at night and snuggle with him.  Rough play, tickle torture and other games are reserved for Dad.  
One would think the broken leg would create a lot of Mama's Boy time..NOT SO!  Turns out this Mama's boy decided to choose the time of a serious injury to become a "DO-IT-YOURSELF- GUY".  He refuses help up the stairs, down the stairs, getting water, climbing onto and off of the couch and even, as of tonight, putting on his jammies."  When I offer to carry him he says, "No thanks, I can do it."  Honestly, I think the other 3 kids with 2 healthy legs would take me up on that offer.
Chubs coming down the stairs..I really almost didn't get the camera out fast enough and it was right by the stairs.  If he doesn't break his other leg I'll be surprised.
Getting onto the couch to watch the movie with Dad.  He throws his broken leg up onto the couch and pulls himself up.  

A Blue Cast for Charlie

Charlie went into the hospital yesterday, New Year's Day, to get a new cast.  It was necessary for the doctor to put him under sedation in order to manipulate the bones into a better position for healing.  Without sedation it would have been way too painful.  Brad, Charlie and I left home for our 10 a.m. "appointment".  At noon we were placed in a room and by 12:45 the procedure was taking place..At 3p.m. Charlie finally woke up and met the criteria for discharge from the hospital.  He chose a blue cast.
As has been the case through this entire ordeal, Charlie was very brave and hasn't suffered too much.  We go back next week for yet another cast that will fit a bit tighter around his leg.
The broken leg has slowed him down a bit but hasn't "kept him down".  He scoots around on his bottom and pulls himself up onto the couch or a chair.  He even can get up the stairs.  Since I can't keep him down as the doctor recommended, I'm just hoping he doesn't do anything to prolong the situation.  
We are proud of him.  He is tough and hasn't complained.  He keeps Sharpies clipped onto the collar of his shirt so he can have people sign the cast when they show up at the house.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Charlie Rings in the New Year with Plaster..and Sets Some Family Records

We had potential to get out of this country with only one emergency run to the doctor for Jack's split chin on the twin's 4th birthday..but, it WAS too good to be true.  Charlie took a fall from the newly installed play set at the Fortress today and a friend quickly fell right on top of him...leading to what I finally assessed to be a broken leg..So, off to the urgent-care we went.  Charlie cried for quite a while at home but by the time we reached the office and got put into a room he was tired and quiet and seemingly pain-free.  Good thing, because, as we would in the US, there was quite a wait at the urgent care.  When we finally got the x-ray and had it read by the doctor (with me looking over his shoulder), it was determined that Charlie had fractured his tibia and fibula just above the ankle on his left leg.
Brad comforts Charlie after he is so brave getting his temporary cast.  Brad went home after that to change, get dinner for me and Charlie and return with the requisite treats for Charlie, a KitKat bar and some bubble gum.  Again, we are so blessed to have Marilyn.  She was home holding down the fort, protecting the other 3 from any injury, all while putting our house back together after we partied like rock stars all through Christmas.
He was so BRAVE riding in the "Ambliance" (his pronounciation, not mine) while I followed in Big Red.  I have to admit I was tempted to go with him, I've never seen the inside of an ambulance and if I am ever going to I would like it to be under such "stress-free" circumstances, knowing the victim will survive and has nothing more than a bone fracture or two from a playground accident.  But, common sense prevailed and when Charlie agreed to ride with Ricardo, our nurse from the insta-care, the deal was done.  I was not going to leave my car across town until some unknown hour.  Now he has bragging rights.  He is the only  member of our family to have broken a bone AND the only one to have seen the inside of an "Ambliance".  I hope he keeps that record 'til the day he dies and this is the FIRST AND LAST time for both!
While Brad was home the doctor informed us that they were ready for us at the other hospital.  I assumed we would just put Charlie in the back seat and drive him over there.  OH NO, instead they insisted he take an abulance ride that in the US would likely cost $5000.  But here, it's all covered by our co-pay, $14.  So, lights flashing and all, off we went.
I know, it's crazy to think of pictures at a time like this.  My baby, (5 year old son, where did the time go??) is in an ambulance in a middle eastern country!  Rewind 2.5 years and I would be in FREAK OUT MODE.  If I wouldn't have snapped a few, I would have wished I had later..I was just happy to have a charged camera with available "digits".  Let this be a lesson to all you parents out there.  YOU NEVER KNOW when a photo "opp" will come up.  The Boy Scouts have this one figured out: "BE PREPARED (with a camera)".
Waiting at hospital #2 for the orthopaedic specialist to see the films and take action.  It all turned out to be a wait....FOR MORE WAITING.  Listen up Michael Moore: "I had nurses risking their visas, whispering under their breath to see a private doctor so I wouldn't risk waiting 2 weeks to get into a specialist".  Turns out, the GP at the urgent care thought I was a "PROFESSIONAL"  so he used his "wasta" (Arabic term for: political pull or favor) to get us into the specialist TODAY.  Oh, the professional part...Turns out, one of the many items on my resume happens to be related to orthopaedics..thank you very much (Dr. Goble and Zimmer).  I usually cannot remember what to buy at the grocery store but when that "Mother's Adrenaline" is pumping...baby that orthopaedic vocab rolls right off my tongue.  Don't get me wrong.  I DID NOT claim to be a doctor or even to have played one on TV but in spite of my continued denials the doctor kept calling me a "Professional".  He asked me if I was "On Staff" at the hospital..Can you believe it.  I really couldn't have "Acted" that out if I tried.  As I've run through it in my mind I've come to the conclusion that even in the US I would be considered a "Maverick" (NOT like Sarah Palin) with my willingness to ask questions to medical authorities.  Not because I question their abilities but because I RESPECT their abilities and want to understand how they are diagnosing and treating problems.  Surely I learned this from my experience with Marlowe "Dr. Goble" and with Zimmer.  I learned they are people and they really don't mind teaching or talking about what they are doing.  If they don't have the confidence to answer my questions then I don't have confidence in them either.  However, even in the US, which is quite progressive in this area, people generally don't question authority especially doctors.  In this culture I think questioning authority is MUCH less frequent.  My willingness to do so must have shown this doctor some confidence of knowledge on my part and given him the impression that I have more knowledge than I do.  At any rate, my boy got into a specialist TODAY.  We had good quality care.  If my "Professional Knowledge" helped get us there then so be it...Again, thank you Dr. Goble and Zimmer...
In the end, after 7 hours we left with an appointment for New Year's Day to go and get the permanent cast set.  The doctor will have to sedate Charlie to manipulate the bones back into place then set them.  It should be quite straight forward and no growth problems or long-term problems should come from it.  (Those are the doctor's words, NOT mine..I do agree with him though, (as long as he sets it correctly).  JUST KIDDING)
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The background story of this whole thing is that my family (siblings) are always teasing me about being a "PROFESSIONAL"..._____________ (fill in the blank).  I have had almost every job possible..NO, not the OLDEST PROFESSION.  Jenn told me she and Sarah almost bought me a book for Christmas this year titled:
This could only be funnier IF  they really would have sent me the book..I guess I DON'T NEED IT, because the doctor here apparently thinks I'm already a "PROFESSIONAL".  He didn't specify what I was professional at...hmmm, maybe he meant race car driver, or stained glass artist, or hostess in a Japanese karaoke bar, or flight attendant, or dental assistant or......

Sunday, December 28, 2008


Does anything say Christmas like a multi-national group of children acting out the Nativity?  I just love these kids. It was so much fun to watch them.  Especially Cairo as the sheep in the stable.  What a funny costume.  And she looks kind of sleepy, like a gentle lamb.


Cairo the monkey girl.  If they plant it she will climb it.  This stunt nearly gave our security guard, Mohammed, a heart attack.  Haven't we all grown up climbing palm trees for fun?
Brad's parents with HH Sheikh Nahyan bin Mabarak Al Nahyan, Minister of Higher Education and  Scientific Research.  (AKA: Brad's boss) While attending a festival day at the Abu Dhabi Women's College, Brad's parents had the opportunity to meet the Sheikh.

Atlantis-Palm Dubai

When Brad and I stayed at the Atlantis a few weeks ago for our anniversary we had dinner with Sargon at the SeaFire Grill on the property.  It was fabulous.  Sargon's company supplies the beef to this amazing steak house.  The specialty is "Wyogi" beef from Australia.  The best steak you will ever taste.  (The most you'll ever pay for one too.)
THANKS UNCLE SARGON!
We joined Sargon and Co. for dinner the evening of the 26th. It gave us one more opportunity to see Ron and Sargon before they headed out to their different cities the following morning and a chance to show the resort and aquarium to Brad's parents.  It's a great place to visit.  We all agreed it's got a much friendlier, warm, laid-back vibe than the Emirates Palace.

A Photo Shoot After Church 26th December




From left to right: Ron Heinrich, Gil, Chee, Brad, Virgil, Marilyn.  Outside in our garden Christmas Eve dinner.
Doesn't everyone from Utah love a buffet?  It seems this is the easiest way to feed a crowd, that's probably why we like it.  At least there was no pushing or shoving.  We managed to behave ourselves.
The SPREAD.
Cairo loves Uncle Sargon.  She is proud to call herself "His Little Princess" (Gag)
Purple was the color of choice for this group.
Turkey Time...
The gingerbread houses..This may become a tradition, we all had fun.  I've decided we need to start earlier in December though..